How to manage negative comments on social media?
Written by Muriel Santoni on
They just happen and you’re bound to have to deal with them at some point if you are active on social media: negative comments. It just comes with the territory, the moment you communicate on public platforms, you expose yourself to praise, just as much as criticism, justified or not.
When it comes to coping with it, finding the right attitude isn’t easy. Here’s a few guidelines in order to learn to deal with negative comments on social media.
Take a step back
A negative comment, possibly a harsh one, about a project that you’ve put some hard work into, will hurt. But, your first reaction should be to take a step back, as it will help you have the right attitude.
Carefully read the words your interlocutor has picked, it will help you understand his point of view. Your product or service can’t possibly please everyone, that’s just a fact. So with that in mind, in the future, try and better target your audience. This way, you’ll take less chances of exposing yourself to virulent comments.
When handling social media, always remember to TAKE A STEP BACK.
Analyze the situation
- What’s causing the discontent?
- Can you find a solution?
Always give the benefit of the doubt to your interlocutor. If he’s mentioning a bug, even if it seems unlikely to you, run some tests. Keep in mind that nor you nor your service/product are infallible ;)
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Take some time to think
This will precisely help you take a step back, analyze the positive feedback from your audience, and, as result, have some arguments of your own ready. Spontaneity isn’t always your best shot. Take some time in order to understand the situation and pick the right words to put your answer together.
But don’t wait too long…
Don’t take it personally
And even when hurtful, their negative comments don’t attack you personally, but merely your business, your products or the way you communicate.
This bring us back to the same advice: TAKE A STEP BACK :)
Don’t delete messages
We are getting to it. The time has come to reply.
Don’t forget to always be polite and respectful; the reputation of your company is at play. If something is wrong, admit it and try to provide solutions to fix it.
Show that you’ve taken the comments into account and that you will consider further improvements for your product/service.
Showing that you’re capable of rethinking things over is a sign of good will and should, most of the time, calm things down.
PS: if the negative comment is uncalled for, insulting or especially harsh, you can try tackling it with a good sense of humour, to lighten up the mood ;)